One of the things that I find with people that I work with in my coaching practice is their need to be “right”. It seems more prevalent with managers and leaders, because they feel as though people expect them to have all the answers. They’re the boss, right? So they MUST know everything!
I’d like [...]
In my business coaching practice, I’m often dealing with people who are great at beginning projects, but have difficulty finishing them. It is very common for people to say to me that they are ineffective at bringing task to completion because they enjoy the starting process so much more.
Part of my coaching to them [...]
Positive thinking becomes a self fulfilling prophecy, just as negative thinking does . You can use your mind as a tool to manifest what you want to come about in your life. Our thoughts do become things!
When we take responsibility for what we manifest in our lives, we become aware of a powerful force, [...]
We all have within us a powerful urge to create. Somehow, as we’re growing up, we learn from other’s judgment that we’re either gifted or not gifted in the area of artistic talent. We temper our creative activity based upon those judgments; we want to be accepted. Yet still within us lies the urge to [...]
I was giving a talk to a woman’s group last night. The topic was work/life balance. Before it was my turn to speak, they were presenting a check to Kevin, a representative for the local Youth for Christ organization. The woman’s group had raised a phenomenal amount of money in a fund-raiser for the organization. [...]
Each and every day, we make promises to people. Some of us make promises that we’re unable to keep. Because we have a genuine desire to help others, we have difficulty saying no to requests that are made to us. We have every intention of following through on our promises, but sometimes it is difficult [...]
It’s true. It’s impossible to manage people. Have you ever tried managing your spouse? Your children?
Steve Chandler, the author of “100 Ways to Motivate Others”, presents this theory in a very convincing way.
Attempting to manage people leads to an effort to contain dissent and being liked. You tend to focus on those people [...]
What plans do you have for “someday?” If “someday” were another day of the week, like “Sunday”, what would we do on that day each week? Would we take a day trip? Would we spend more time with our loved ones? Would we paint a picture?
Often, we wish our lives away by looking forward [...]
Yesterday was a day full of gratitude for me. My husband had surgery to remove a growth from his thyroid. The surgery went very well, and it looks like the growth is not cancer. Having been diagnosed with Melanoma this past year, my husband has been through a tremendous ordeal. He is now cancer free, [...]
When we were children, we were taught to say please and thank you. It was simply a matter of showing good manners. But what we weren’t necessarily taught is how to think about what to be thankful for.
We as humans have all been faced with times in our lives where we’ve felt desperate. We’ve [...]
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